Hosting a Friendsgiving to Remember: Cozy Tips & Easy Wins
There’s something special about Friendsgiving. No big family pressures, no rigid traditions — just good friends, good food, and a whole lot of laughter. It’s that sweet spot between festive and relaxed, where the table doesn’t have to be perfect… it just has to feel like home.
Whether you’re hosting for the first time or you’ve made it an annual tradition, here are my favorite simple, stress-free tips to make your Friendsgiving extra cozy this year.
1. Create a Warm Welcome
First impressions set the tone. Light a candle, play soft music, and have a drink station ready as guests arrive. I love a simple cider bar with cinnamon sticks and sliced oranges — bonus points if you keep it simmering on the stove for that “fall magic” scent.
2. Make It a Potluck (and Own One Dish)
No need to carry the whole feast on your shoulders. Assign guests a dish to bring and focus your energy on one or two signature items. Whether that’s the turkey, mac & cheese, or your famous dessert, keeping it simple gives everyone a chance to contribute and enjoy.
3. Think Cozy, Not Fancy
You don’t need matching napkin rings or a tablescape that looks like a magazine spread. Throw a fall-colored tablecloth on the table, layer in pumpkins or candles, and let mismatched dishware add charm. Cozy always beats perfect.
4. Prep a Simple Gratitude Moment
This is one of my favorite parts of Friendsgiving. Before diving into dessert, invite everyone to share something they’re thankful for. It doesn’t have to be formal — sometimes the most meaningful moments happen between bites of pie.
5. Don’t Forget the Leftovers
Have to-go boxes or disposable containers ready. It keeps cleanup simple and sends everyone home with a little extra love (and pie).
✨ Bonus Tip: Make It Yours
Friendsgiving isn’t about recreating a traditional Thanksgiving dinner — it’s about creating your own tradition. Add a game, a photo booth corner, or a favorite playlist. Whatever makes it your crew’s night.
🧡 Final Thoughts
Friendsgiving is a reminder that family isn’t just the people you’re related to — it’s the people who show up, bring pie, and make your table feel full in all the best ways.
So grab your favorite fall drink, light a cozy candle, and get ready to host a night your friends won’t forget.
P.S. I’ve rounded up a few of my favorite Friendsgiving hosting finds on my Shop Page.
P.P.S. If you’re planning a gathering this year, I’d love to see it! Tag me @hey_its_emilie
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